Where do we go from here?

Running on Fumes

Nov 1

Kel, it can't always be everyone else. Sometimes...it's you.

Remember when (probably last week) I mentioned it had been the 2nd time someone scraped their tire against the front panel of my car? Well, upon the 3rd incident, I decided to reexamine the situation. It was me. Turns out - pun intended - when I pull into the garage, I'm cutting the angle a little too close and touching the garage panel. Whoopsies.

Incident #2

Typically I don't share a lot on here that's incredibly vulnerable and personal. Mostly I try to keep it positive yet self-deprecating because that's funny to me; however, lately, for whatever reason, I was considering things I regret from a generalized perspective. And, I believe my biggest regret is how I was not there for my best friend when she needed me most. We'd been through so much together yet I bailed when all she wanted was acceptance. And I bailed at a critically horrible time in her life, when she was dealing with a medical crisis. As far as regrets, that's definitely the biggest, almost unforgivable one I can think of. Others might disagree. If there's ever a time when I can say it can't always be everyone else, that time ... It was all me. Occasionally we reach out to each other but it will never be the same. I hurt her. In a matter of minutes, I lost every ounce of trust she had ever placed in me. Rebuilding it might take forever. There's no funny ending to this piece of information and it's sad still.

But what isn't sad yet is still applicable to everyone is the year I've had so far. I don't love recognition from a large, well lit stage. Really, I want my team to be recognized for their contributions to my success because I wouldn't be here without them. So, I would say to them, it isn't everyone else, it's you. And all of the you's make it worth it.

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I ask you -

Have you ever thought something was happening to you that wasn't your fault?

Any advice for regaining trust in a long-term friendship?

Tell me about your successes!

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